Saying Good-bye

For days now I have thought about closing my blog down.
And I suspect by weeks end it will be.

Probably will keep it open for family only.
There are people that only comment nasty things, most I delete but some just make me shake my head and I am no enabler, I will say something back and then someone else in a not so gracious way, calls me ungracious, its silly, pointless and I frankly don't want to subject myself to it. Selfish on my part, sure, but then it is my blog and my peace that is being disturbed.

Comments

Oh hon I am so sorry to hear this but I understand. I truly enjoy your blog and will miss it if you go.
Shan said…
Dearest Patty,

I am so sorry to hear that you are closing your blog. I will miss you and all of your family greatly. I can certainly understand that you don't need the negativity in your life. My goodness, why do people even bother to read a blog they don't like, much less comment on it? Hats off to you for not letting yourself get caught up in something that weighs you down.

Drop me a note from time to time, won't you?

Kindredly,
Shan
Honey Hill Farm
Patty, I am so sorry to hear this. It's your choice, but I know many people will miss reading what you have to say. You had an original voice and were very inspiring. Be happy for the good you were able to do.
Marci said…
Oh Pat, I will miss your pictures and reading your thoughts. I don't always comment, but I usually read what you write. I am sorry there are so many boogers out there in the world that have nothing better to do with their time. If you close it down you will be dearly missed.
Anna said…
Dear Patty,

If you choose to close down your blog, I will be truly disappointed. Yours is the first blog I visit every morning, and I have always been able to count on you for an uplifting word, a great idea, beautiful photos, or just some inspiration. Although I understand that you must do what's necessary to protect your own peace, I know are strong enough to rise above the negative comments and naysayers. We all get those types of comments, and the most loving thing we can do is to delete and ignore them.

Blessings,
Annabelle
~Bren~ said…
Oh Patty. I will pray about this...is there any way you can just make your blog private and invite the postive people. I just see Satan laughing. You have such powerful posts and they are so thought provoking. Anything that glorifies God is going to get attacked. It is funny. I just wondered yesterday if I am not glorifying God enough with my blog because I don't get any nasty comments. (only my Face of Trauma posts get those). I am feeling luke warm. I would miss you SO much. ((((((hugs))))))
Jeanne said…
Hi Patty,

Have you thought about keeping your blog up but blocking comments completely? That way you could continue to share your thoughts and pictures, but not have to deal with misunderstandings and misinterpretations.

Hugs ~ Jeanne
The Stricklands said…
Dear Patty,
I would miss you terribly if your sweet voice was not heard through your blog. You have a deep wisdom and insight that I love to glean from daily. Some people don't have joy (their choice) and they try to squelch it out of everyone else. You are loved and appreciated by many friends.
Mary
Deanna said…
I do hope you will reconsider or perhaps turn off the comments as someone else suggested. I so enjoy your blog and have come to feel as though I know you and your lovely family. I've prayed for dear little Mei-Ling through her many physical trials and am always so happy to see a picture of her and news that she is doing well.

If you do decide to go private, would you consider allowing me to access it. I would be honored to be able to continue to read your thought-provoking posts and watch your family continue to grow and prosper.

Thank you.
Deanna
Diannia said…
Patty,

I just recently found your blog and have enjoyed it very much. I agree w/Bren when she said that it's Satan and he's enjoying it that you are saying good-bye...he doesn't attack those that aren't furthering God's love and wisdom. I hope you will pray on this futher and respect whatever God leads you to do.
Pearl said…
Patty,
I am so sorry. I love your blog and you and your words of wisdom will be missed.
You have a sweet family. We use to live in Arlington and are going to be in Fort Worth in two days to visit family. I like hearing about Texas on your blog. You will mention a place and I get so excited that I know where it is.
Thank You, Kim
Marianna said…
I will miss your posts so much, but I also understand the need to seperate yourself from toxic people. I will think of you, and especiall Mei Ling often.

Marianna
Marianna said…
I've also been meaning to ask you how you like the Gulley/Mulholland book?

My e-mail address is cardinalacre AT yahoo DOT com
Diane said…
I will miss "hearing" your thoughts. I am sorry there are mean people in the world who just want to make others upset. I hope you can find a way to stay but if you can't I will miss you.
La Tea Dah said…
Patricia, please reconsider --- many are blessed by your words. I would be sad if you left 'blogland'. I think the blocking comments idea is a good one. Something to think about. . .

~ La Tea Dah ~
MiSScNeLLY said…
I am truly sorry to hear that people have been rude and unkind to you. I really enjoy your pictures, your words, and your kind thoughts. I will miss your blog, it really is a positive place on the web. There is a way that you can just allow invited guests or block comments. Whatever you decide, I pray that you have peace of mind.
Be blessed
sulli said…
Patty, I have just found you but feel as if Ive known you for a long time. I truly enjoy your posts and all of your photos bring about a peaceful feeling for me. I am so sorry you are considering shutting your blog down. I will miss you and your neck of the woods. I wish you well.
Patti said…
I am probably one of the many people who read your blog every day but don't comment often. You put down your thoughts in a way that made me think of things in a different way. I will miss gleaning from your wisdom!
Dana and Daisy said…
I'll miss you and your blog also. It really helps me remember what is important in life, living with gratitude. And your love for your family is an example to us all. I've been intrigued by your observations about God and spiritual alertness.

But I also understand all things are for a time, and you may need it to change.

Blessings to you. Dana
Anonymous said…
Patty...I'm so sorry to hear this. You and your family will be dearly missed. I read your blog very frequently and like to hear positive things and updates on little Mei-Ling. Many blessings to you and your family. Might you think of going to invites only? Blessings again, Stephanie
QuiltingFitzy said…
I will be truly sorry to see you go. I read your blog almost daily.

May I suggest you close your comments only?

I will miss seeing your lovely grandchildren, they are such a wonderful reflection of their grandparents and parents.
grbev said…
I once saw a movie (and I can't remember which one) where a husband and father lived a separate life from his family in his dreams. He imagined himself on a farm working outside and feeling love and peace. His family was later surprised to find this out about him.

Your blog provides that type of daydream to a lot of people, I am sure. In this rat race world, it is nice to stop by and see how the goats and chickens are doing and what beauty lies in everything you do. I guess we are living vicariously through you.

I hope you can continue without corruption from negative comments because you are a bright star of sanity in this crazy world. I too have dreamed your dream and walked your paths. Thank you so much for sharing your life with me. I hope it can continue.

Much love from a country girl at heart,

Bev
Melzie said…
from a daily lurker, I selfishly hope you reconsider but then I think of all that you've exampled to me and know I cant be selfish that way :) I hope and pray Mei-Ling continues to thrive and stay healthy and I hope you know how youve touched my life and many others. Love you :) xoxo melzie
Mimi said…
I never realized that you got negative comments...
but if people leave negative comments that it must mean that you are striking a nerve...and just maybe that nerve needs to be pinched a little bit...
I would say keep it open and pray for the people who leave negative responses
Mimi
Janette said…
I say- trash the negative comments and keep on trucking. That is what the Lord would do- I am sure He heard LOTS of negative things while He shared His message. I enjoy your blog.
Patty! I love your blog as the others have shared. Consider before removing it, to not allow comments. Just post for those of us who enjoy seeing and reading Patty.........that might be the worst thing your negative comment people could live through....lol. Imagine you still blogging and they have no way to badger....you are a strong woman, you will know what to do!!
rosellafan said…
Patty, I am so sorry to hear that you are considering closing your blog....I only found it a few weeks ago....I will really miss it too...it is the first blog that I check each morning....
I will keep you in my prayers...

Sincerely,
Paula
Cathy said…
I hope you reconsider. I never could understand why people would continue to read a blog that they don't like or agree with. Get a life, people!

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