Gentleness

"Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. "

Philippians 4:5

This includes your children and spouse, even when behind closed doors, the slow poke driver in front of you, the lady in line in front of you that has a string of problems at the checkout, the people that believe the world should be run their way, your family members that push all your buttons, and even the people on the other end of the phone line that are rude or haven't a clue what you need from them.