supper is on the stove

On facebook this morning I have a discussion going on supper vs dinner and its been fun seeing who calls their evening meal supper and who calls it dinner.
Keith Elder had this discussion too Dinner vs Supper
For me it has always been....Breakfast, Lunch then Supper.... Dinner was something you had about 2 in the afternoon on a Sunday or holiday.
What is it for you ?
I wonder if its a regional thing... I grew up right outside of Boston.
pea soup simmering on the stove. the fire feels good on this cold, damp day

Comments

... Paige said…
Dinner is fancy as you say about 2 in the afternoon.
We have super, even though I believe the official deffinition is a meal eaten after 8 or 9 pm.
Yummy food
Momzoo said…
We have breakfast, lunch and Dinner.

My in-laws say breakfast, lunch and supper.

MY great-grandmother use to say Breakfast, dinner and supper. (She use to make huge lunches/dinners when she was a ranchers wife for the haying crews and other such people.)
Dana and Daisy said…
Isn't it funny, what a little comment can spark?
My Dad always called it breakfast, lunch and supper when I was little. I never knew what time supper was but being raised by my Mom (they were divorced) we always had dinner. So I knew what time that would be. *grin*

But really, it depends on my mood I guess...I use both terms interchangeably now.
Marci said…
Mine is the same as yours. Dinner was on Sunday. The other days it was Breakfast, Lunch and Supper.
grbev said…
My kids always make fun of me when I call dinner "supper." Maybe it has something to do with age. You ought to see the looks they give me when I call flipflops "thongs"!

Bev
Hi Patty,

I have breakfast lunch and dinner on weekdays and usually on Saturdays. On Sunday it is breakfast dinner and supper......
Patty said…
grbev, I get that same look when I call flipflops "thongs" too.
When I mentioned I needed to get some new "thongs" for summer, my girls were simply horrified. Of course we were not on the same page at all !
Patty said…
Thanks Dana for the spark of dinner supper conversation : )
Tina Leigh said…
I call like you do Patty, lol.
Janette said…
We never did supper- only dinner. My mom was a housewife with a plan that her children would all only eat formally every night. Funny how none of us do on our own- but the name stuck.
My daughter's in laws have supper. I think it is more of a farm term in the midwest.
No thongs at our house- lol
jodie said…
We say Breakfast, Lunch and Tea. Funny how Breakfast and Lunch are universal.
Marianna said…
We've always called the daily evening meal dinner...I was born and raised in Texas. I think there is some regionality to it, but I'm not sure!
In most European countries where I have lived they consider dinner the noon meal and the evening meal is what we would translate as supper.
aimee said…
Interesting question. Breakfast, lunch and dinner most of the time and have lived in the Pacific NW most of my life.
Is it green split pea soup or Swedish pea soup made with yellow split peas that you were cooking?
Blessings, A
healinggreen said…
I'm from CT, and my family comes from Puritan Dairy farmer stock, and everyone says dinner. My husband's family too, who is Irish from Long Island...

from merriam-webster dictionary:

Main Entry: din·ner
Pronunciation: \ˈdi-nər\
Function: noun
Usage: often attributive
Etymology: Middle English diner, from Anglo-French disner, diner meal, from disner to dine
Date: 13th century
1 a: the principal meal of the day b: a formal feast or banquet
2: table d'hôte 2
3: the food prepared for a dinner (eat your dinner)
4: a packaged meal usually for quick preparation (warmed up a frozen dinner)

Main Entry: sup·per
Pronunciation: \ˈsə-pər\
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English soper, from Anglo-French super, from super to sup — more at sup
Date: 13th century
1 a: the evening meal especially when dinner is taken at midday b: a social affair featuring a supper ; especially : an evening social especially for raising funds (a church supper)
2: the food served as a supper (eat your supper)
3: a light meal served late in the evening


So the real difference seems to be if your evening meal is usually the biggest of the day (dinner), or a lighter meal (supper).
I'm from Hartford, CT and my family uses dinner/supper equally to refer to our evening meal; however, it was always Christmas dinner (not supper) which would be eaten around 2. Interesting conversation!
TJ said…
My grandma always called the evening meal supper, and special occasions were dinner. She was from Oklahoma.

In my family it's usually dinner is the evening meal on weekdays, and supper is used for an informal weekend meal.
How funny! My kids were just discussing this today. On my Dad's family farm in Kentucky, it was breakfast, dinner then supper. The kids want to change to this vernacular.
Melanie said…
I am from the Chicago area and we call the evening meal, dinner. My father, who was Canadian, called it supper.
Patty said…
Melanie, my family is all from Canada so maybe its a Canadian thing
Glenda said…
We have breakfast, lunch and supper-except on Sunday-when we also have dinner anywhere from 2-4 pm. And then munch after that on the leftovers...which might be called supper.

My Grandmother called it breakfast, dinner and supper on Sundays or Holidays, the rest of the week it was breakfast, lunch and dinner. She was a NY farmer's wife. She could really cook a good meal! I sure miss them. x0
Unknown said…
I am from California, my family called the day's meals breakfast, lunch and dinner. My grandparents in Iowa called it breakfast, dinner and supper with lunch being the between meal snacks.

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